It is said that losing a child is a parent’s biggest nightmare. The healing process is a life long experience. Ali Bandell has chosen a beautiful way to honor her own daughter’s birthday. She invites you to help her, help others. 

Saturday would have been Zoë’s 20th birthday.  I have been thinking about a way to spend April 12 in a meaningful way and I learned about Project Linus.  This is a local program that makes and collects homemade quilts and blankets that usually go to children at our local hospitals or who have gone through traumatic situations.  Currently, Project Linus is working to collect enough homemade blankets and quilts to give to each students of Arapahoe High School. Earlier this school year there was a shooting at this school and a 17 year old senior was shot and killed.

It takes about an hour to make a 2 sided fleece blanket.  Please let me know if you can join me and some of Zoë’s other friends and family members this weekend working to support those in our community who have experienced feelings that they don’t understand and that we know all too well. Friday night (4-8) and Saturday (1-7) we will make fleece blankets that will be shared with the seniors at Arapahoe HS.

Unfortunately, I know how much these small gestures from our community are so appreciated, healing and become more meaningful in time.  My goal is to make 20 blankets.

Please let me know if you are coming and when so that I can have materials and food here for you.  If there is another time that you do it, let me know as I will not be traveling again until May.

Love to you all

Ali

303.435.6645 – call or text

Allyn.bandell@gmail.com

Please join Ali this weekend if you are able. The positive ripple effects will be felt throughout our community for years to come. – Karen Loucks Rinedollar 

Was 9/11 a Character Developing Experience?

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Henry Ford said, “Life is a series of experiences, each one of which make us bigger, even though sometimes it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and gives which we endure help us in our marching onward.”

On the morning of 9/11, my parents were visiting me in Denver on their annual visit. They still lived at the time in my childhood home, about a mile from the Pentagon. There is no doubt that their day would have much different if they had woken up under their own roof in Arlington. As they slumbered in my king sized bed, I met with my future husband Gary, whom I’d been dating a mere two months, at our local rec center for an early morning kick box class.

Covered in sweat and ready to grab a little breakfast together before going our separate ways for the day, a Secret Service friend rushed past us as she said, “I have to leave. Our country is at war. Go look at the television.”  Perplexed, we stood dumbfounded with dozens of other exercisers in front of a screen belting out the morning news. A plane had hit one of the Twin Towers.

Like most who initially heard this info, we assumed it was an unskilled pilot flying a small personal craft. When reports came out that it was a large passenger plane, it was confusing. How could an experienced pilot make an error like that? Then we witnessed the second plane strike. WHAT WAS GOING ON?

We continued with our plans to the local bagel spot hoping to grab some post workout nosh while watching the story unfold. Oddly, everyone in the restaurant was blissfully unaware of what was transpiring just 2000 mile east. When we heard that the first tower essentially melted, it was time to go our separate ways. Gary went to work and I returned home.

My folks were sitting in bed witnessing the surreal sights. I climbed in between the two of them as if I were 30 years younger- just in time for the second building to melt to the ground like a stick of butter in a microwave. The steel, the windows, the planes, the people- all disappeared into a billowing cloud of dust. This was what you’d expected to see in a David Copperfield show, not the national news.

It was amazing witnessing a world event as an adult in the presence of my parents. I observed a lot of myself in both of them. My mother, the extravert, wanted to head back to find out how the house, our neighborhood, her friends were doing. My introvert father was content to lay low and collect the facts as they were released. He had no intention of returning to the D.C. area until there were more answers. Even if he had wanted to travel, all flights were cancelled so we spent the week numbly under eerily silent skies and trying to make sense out of what was going on.

As many of us wondered if there would even be a world to wake up to on September 12, we soon realized as horrific as events can be, life really does keep going and we march onward. Such timeless wisdom Henry Ford offered.

Karen Loucks Rinedollar has appeared on Oprah and NBC Nightly News with Brian Williams. She is best known as the founder of the children’s charity Project Linus and as the author of Working for Peanuts: The Project Linus Story.  Karen is a professional speaker sharing the importance to living a Purpose-Full Life as well as training medical professionals on the importance of Excellence in Healthcare through patient safety and customer service. You can follow her on Twitter at #KarenLoucks303.